Men's Ministries


The Vision of the Men's Ministry Office

  ...doing whatever it takes to reach men wherever they are!"
I Corinthians 9:19-23

The Seven Steps to Beginning a Men's Ministry in Your Church                            Horsemen

  1. Saturate the entire process with prayer
  2. Involve & pray with your pastor
  3. Establish & write a visionary purpose statement
  4. Invite & recruit participants, identify the 'called' lay leaders & share the vision
  5. Plan a strategy for reaching men through evangelism, discipleship & missions/ministry
  6. Identify & make available potential resources
  7. Enter into a partnership with God

 From Man In The Mirror (The Five Defining Disciplines of Growing Men | Spanish | Download)

Principles of an Effective Men's Ministry                                                      

A life-changing ministry is...

  • Relationally driven
  • Done by the men themselves
  • Balanced-evangelism, discipleship & missions/ministry
  • Done in manageable pieces...
    • Start ministry with relationships
    • Make ministry a progression (not isolated events)                                                                          
    • Provide a variety of entry points
    • Blaze a path for growing commitment
    • Root your ministry in culture
    • Take time to build
    • Decentralize
    • Open a variety of service opportunities
    • Take advantage of affinity groups already present, in existence
    • Get excited about church-based ministry
    • Center on the Word of God
Steve Sonderman, How to Build a Life-Changing Men's Ministry
 (Minneapolis: Bethany House Publishers, 1996), 84 ff.


Five Characteristics of a Purpose Driven Men's Ministry
  1. Biblically Based
  2. Balanced                                                                                                                                
  3. Variety of Entry Points                                                                                
  4. Interconnected
  5. Purpose Driven

Important Points to Remember

  • The purpose driven Men's Ministry strategy must be implemented with balance. If not, the strategy then becomes too one-dimensional and shallow.
  • Care must be taken to insure that we are sensitive in reaching both the 'churched' and the 'unchurched'.
  • Every activity should always have at least one spiritual goal from the three spheres in addition to its fellowship and/or recreational goals!
  • In the beginning, it is wise to plan for small wins (successes) in order to establish a solid base and build enthusiasm.
  • Allow the ministry to grow progressively.
  • All facets of the ministry need to be evaluated for effectiveness on an annual basis.
  • Activities may involve a combination of aspects from multiple spheres-evangelism, discipleship & missions/ministry.




 
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For You from ManInTheMirror.Org

Click here for “A Bulletin Insert Survey to Count

 Your Disciples.” (Use this amazingly simple-to-

administer survey to figure out exactly what

percentage of your men are disciples—called, equipped, and sent.)

Click here for “What Is a Disciple, and How Do

You Make One?” (a quick synopsis of the
definition for “disciple” used in this book

 and the many ways we can make disciples)

Click here to download “The ‘Portal’ Priority”

 PowerPoint presentation(show this to your

leadership teams and get them excited about

 focusing on the Great Commission)

Click here to download a the worksheet

 for “Grace-Based, Application-Oriented

 Bible Study Preparation Worksheet”

(to prepare a dynamic men’s message

 or regular sermon—adapt or adopt this

 to save lots of time and keep your heart

 and mind on track)

Click here to download a sample “Table

 Leader Job Description” (the same one

 we use at Man in the Mirror Bible Study

—a great way to keep everything on track

 and adaptable for leaders in all types of positions)

Click here to download Chris White’s

 “How to Build a Dynamic Men’s Fellowship”

 (the guide I used to start the Man in the

 Mirror Bible Study in chapter 10)

 

Click here to read How to Lead a Family Devotion

 

 

 

 

 

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LINKS

Fishers of Men
sbcmissioneducation
royalambassadors
challengerscentral
bmen
Sexual Addiction Help
  exodus.to
  freedomeveryday.org
  unshackledministries.org
  everymansbattle.com/
  
churchrenewal
namb.net/dime
alertoncampus.blogspot
bmen.net/built
Men's Discipleship
www.disciplemen.com
National Coalition
of Men's Ministries
www.ncmm.org
International Mission
Board  Volunteer Projects
www.imb.org/vim
North American Mission\
Board Volunteer Projects
www.volunteers.namb.net
Promise Keepers
www.promisekeepers.org
Steve Farrar
www.stevefarrar.com
Man in the Mirror -
 Patrick Morley
www.maninthemirror.com
Men's Survey
Men's Survey Two
HOW TO CONTACT US:

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Keith Burkhart
Family & Men's Ministry Specialist
(405) 942-3800 x 4649

kburkhart@bgco.org


Debra Stanley  
Family & Men's Ministry Assistant
(405) 942-3800 x 4634
dstanley@bgco.org
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